The myth of romantic love!

Nowadays, there are a lot of assumptions and definitions of what love is. Many people can tell you from their perspective what they consider as love. However, most of those interpretations are just assumptions; notions of romantic love, which trigger irrational thoughts and behaviors. From your perspective, what is romantic love?

Romantic love is always related with what some Tv programs or love films show us. Moreover, those define love as wonderful, something that all of us can mean as perfect love. The kind of love that movies array does not have negative perspectives; the feeling between couple is no longer real, because it shows us an idealization. That is why, most of the people want to have or experiment the same love as in the TV, without any problem, bad moments, sadness, or the wrong idea that love conquers all. That is not true love!

As for me, I cannot tell you what I consider as love, for I have not experienced that. The love for another person alien to your family. However, all the conceptions of love do not express the reality. From my point of view, love is a choice; you choose to love someone, and you must do that every day, all the time. You have to face all the difficulties and bad moments during this process, and try to go through them. When you love someone, you are not supposed to be tied, but free.

 

Love is not a feeling, but a choice!